College. Career. Lifelong Friends. Marriage Partner. In the next five years your teenager may make the most critical decisions of his or her life. In Life Happens, Barry St. Clair offers you a roadmap to guide you in helping your kids make those choices. They will discover their identity and destiny. The roadmap includes directions for finding your teenager’s personality traits, spiritual gifts, abilities and experiences, motivations, life purpose, values, goals, time use and decisions.